Will Flowers help?

Following up with my previous questions...





I've decided to give her her space and not pressure her... she doesn't want to talk about our relationship then I won't. She still says that I don't care about her, and that I don't ever listen to her... at all.





I don't really know how to prove to her that I do... I bought her three carnations (the flowers I got her on our first date and she always liked them), colored blue, pink, and white respectively. I am also going to write a note consisting of:





"You know I care about you very deeply, even though I am sometimes bad at showing it. No matter what, I am always here for you for anything."





along with it. Do you think that it will help? I am going to deliver it on her doorstep while she is there and then just ring the doorbell. Mysterious delivery.

Will Flowers help?
that is the perfect thing to do.....real good thinking just saying what you are planning to do shows that you do care about her...good luck man
Reply:realtionship sounds like hell





you have to prove over and over that you care about her majesty..........





NOTHING WRONG WITH HER.............RIGHT??????????





if you send flowers it proves you're whipped..........





ignore her and see if she persues you...........
Reply:Mysterious delivery? I'm sure she'll know right away who it's from.





Will it help? Possibly, Lord knows it can't hurt.





Good luck!
Reply:A very nice gesture. Leave the flowers and note and don't hang around her house. Let her think about it and enjoy the flowers. Why don't you give her three pink roses instead you know, take it up a notch. Good luck. I think she will come around. Give her space and wait it out. You sound like a sweet considerate person. Keep it up.
Reply:She migth see it as you running away and not facing her, if she catches you leaving it and then high tailing it out of there.....be careful.....has to be done without error. The truth of the matter is, you should ask her in the letter to help you understand her side of things..tell her you want to understand her feeling if she would give you the chance.
Reply:You mentioned that she mentioned a bf who was posessive and obsessive? Maybe she was manipulative and controlling to him like she is being to you?





You have done everything you can. I wouldn't just take a step back, I would leave completely - move on and find someone who cares about how you feel.





She is going to keep you holding on until something better comes along. You have only known her for 2 weeks.





If she does feel the same way, she will come calling! She will!