What is your biggest faults----------Looking back?

My wife was expecting our first child after trying for so long and I did not even think about flowers for her, when I came to see her after the long delivery? And many more.

What is your biggest faults----------Looking back?
screaming %26amp; shouting during arguments with my ex, being so emotional...actually, having any of those arguments2begin with...





now realise that arguments achieve Nothing%26amp;talking calmy is much more effective/ constructive..





saying it louder (literally) does Not mean the other person will hear u any better!
Reply:My biggest fault is not trying to make my marriage work.......
Reply:not moving away from this hell!!
Reply:I took my wife for granted.
Reply:Dont worry about things like that. You were prob too stressed to think about it.


My biggest fault is that I think Im right all the time....but then I am a woman.... ;)
Reply:marrying my husband.
Reply:Whoa, your wife is a lucky woman if your biggest downfall is forgetting to bring her flowers.





I think, my biggest problem is that I can be selfish and stubborn. I'm working on it, tho.
Reply:Expecting too much from one person....and


Letting my children move away with their father, so I could be with a man who ended up playing me.





But hind sight is 20/20 and the only way we learn anything in this life is by screwing up a few times, so I try NOT to look back. What's in the past needs to stay there so I don't repeat the same mistakes. :)
Reply:Waiting for him to "see the light" or trying and expect for him to "change" for the sake of our marriage and our son.





My butt, he never changed and I wasted precious youth on that moron.





Now I know that if a person is worthless to begin with, I shall not waste time trying to straighten the twisted branch.





Good luck
Reply:listening to my heart instead of my head,being to naive.
Reply:Not listen to my parent to go to med school.
Reply:The thing I most regret is, years ago, when my husband (a truck driver) first plastered a wall in our new home and it had a HUGE bulge in it, I told him what a fantastic job he'd done and it looked great. Now all the walls in our house look pregnant! But, hey, I love him!
Reply:being too scared to take risks and enjoy things more, not worrying about the way i look and comparing myself to others! am much more free and open minded now!
Reply:Not dating more before I got married.
Reply:although Ive never been married - there are many many things Id change with relationships if I could turn back time!


I think hindsight is a great thing - but unfortunately it opens our eyes to our and indeed others faults just that bit too late!!!


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Reply:I used to find it very hard to talk up for myself. I am a bit better now thank god.
Reply:I tend to put my foot in my mouth a lot. I am working very hard on this and there's been improvement but I feel very embarassed when I look back.
Reply:Not appreciating my parents (now both dead)
Reply:Not comming out in my teens.


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Reply:wanting to try things, but being too scared or pressured not to. those chances havent come back around again, and i will always wonder how it could have been now.
Reply:Fear of failure but I got over it in the end and Im living happily ever after.