What do i do!?

My gf is mad at me and wants to break up with me.............she isnt calling me........the reason for this is she saw my picture on hotornot.com..........what the hell....thats not a dating site...........she got so pissed off...and never wants 2 speak 2 me





i gave her my email and pass so she can check my email cuz she doesnt trust me....and one email said ur hotornot picture has been approved...so thats how





i even called a flower delivery service to delivery 1 dozen roses 2 her house.................





I cant stop thinking about her......she hasnt call me all day yesterday.....and im still w8ting by my cell phone right now......what do i do......i feel like im dying inside without her.....





she doesnt call me


i cant call her cuz her parents will punish her.


im 17 and she is 16 and we gone out for 1 year and 8 months..

What do i do!?
It's over.





Ignore her maybe she'll come back on her own but if she doesn't then at least you didn't make a fool out of yourself.
Reply:First of all have your removed the picture from the site?thats the first thing u need to do, second WRITE HER A LETTER and I mean HAND WRITE IT, mail it to her house, and then go from there
Reply:I would go to her house to apologize in person and ask what you can do to make the situation right. Expressing your feelings toward her isn't a bad idea either.
Reply:Allow her the space she needs. Don't press her right now. I'm sure her friends are doing enough of that. Plus you know that friends can be very persuasive. If she truly cares about you she will come to the conclusion that you are indeed telling the truth. You definitely need to take your profile off the web sight though. She'll be checking that all the time if you don't, not to mention she hates the idea to begin with.
Reply:well,i guess you should meet up with her and explain to her and apologise,cos this has really hurt her.....then give her sometime,u cannt force anyone to be with you or love you,so let her be by herself after explaining and wait for her to get bck
Reply:Tell her you made a stupid mistake (girls love it when they think they right) tell it you didnt do it out of disrepect for her but because you were feeling bad about yourself.
Reply:call up her friends....


ask them 2 help u
Reply:You're young, get over it, this is childish.
Reply:DAMB dude you outa luck
Reply:If you were not doing anything wrong and she won't take intuitive to check even when you give her the means to do so. She probably wanted to break off the relationship to begin with or she has very serious trust issues. Suck it up man, find something else to do. Show her its up to her to get over something she imagined. If she don't guess what you are young and can find someone better.
Reply:she isnt worth it. maybe she wanted to break up with you any way and is just using this as the excuse to finaly do it.
Reply:Well first of all if something as little as you on hotornot can break apart your relationship then it wasn't much of a relationship, your young and you will learn that trust and communication go a long way, she needs to grow up and start acting like an adult, sure shes made over something stupid but what good is that going to do. be upfront with her and tell her to get a grip because her lack of trust is going to break your relationship to pieces.
Reply:Get a job you hippy
Reply:let her cool off...call her in couple of days...
Reply:Well, all I can say is that you're not very smart.





Posting your picture on a public site is the perfect way to be seen by thousands of people. The next time don't be an idiot and post your picture...
Reply:move on
Reply:i think she was already looking for a way out and you gave it to her - everyone and their mother knows its not a dating site - my friends put my pic on their without me knowing - big deal bro - she needs to grow up a lot - sorry you are in love with her and you have to go through this.
Reply:An apology would be a good idea and explained to her why you do it.
Reply:she is over reacting to be honest with you.
Reply:well that's what u get for being stupid.. u know u men always do stupid shyt w/out thinking, and think that ur not gonna get caught and then when u do u wanna cry and whine and shyt like u didn't do anything wrong..





u should've been thinking of ur girl when u did that dumb shyt...





u need to fall back and wait for her to call u...
Reply:Play it cool. Give it some time. Don't call her for a week.


She will call you back.





Trust me on this one.





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